Damn, i just cheated on my girlfriend....

DeionS · 05-31-2009, 04:42 PM

First time I've cheated..... I slept with two different women this weekend and my girlfriend has no idea.

I'm disgusted with myself haha..... But I just feel like no one girl can keep my attention on them for mroe than a couple months.

Any other guy feel that way..???

It seems like every gf I get or every girl I start having feelings for, those feelings just go away after sleeping with them, and then I just want a different girl, and once I get that different girl, those feelings go away.

Is this normal?

p.s., this is not a joke thread, i'm being 100 percent serious.

I feel like a man-whore, it's a gift & a curse.

Bkjj11 · 05-31-2009, 05:58 PM

yes it is normal homie. its probably because after sex, you have no real intimate feelings about them anymore. It happens to plenty of dudes, including me, not to say im special but im speaking from experience.

In your case like many other people cases, u just havent found that right female that will click with you outside of the bedroom. Im talking about a chick that you cant stop talking about, or the thought that you are ready to wife this chick up cuz thats how good you think about her.

At the end of the day homie, whether or not you stay with your current chick, its not gonna be healthy cuz u gonna feel like a 'man-whore' until you have that woman that changes you for good and u wont feel like u need to mess around anymore...

Obviously u havent found it yet, but its gonna hit u upside your head for sure with one chick and you'll see what i mean.

SwiRly · 05-31-2009, 06:02 PM

havent u ever talkin to a bitch when ur horny or someshit and then regret it once u bust... yeah

CaliforniKated · 05-31-2009, 11:57 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bkjj11

yes it is normal homie. its probably because after sex, you have no real intimate feelings about them anymore. It happens to plenty of dudes, including me, not to say im special but im speaking from experience.

In your case like many other people cases, u just havent found that right female that will click with you outside of the bedroom. Im talking about a chick that you cant stop talking about, or the thought that you are ready to wife this chick up cuz thats how good you think about her.

At the end of the day homie, whether or not you stay with your current chick, its not gonna be healthy cuz u gonna feel like a 'man-whore' until you have that woman that changes you for good and u wont feel like u need to mess around anymore...

Obviously u havent found it yet, but its gonna hit u upside your head for sure with one chick and you'll see what i mean.

100% co-sign..u just haven't found the right one yet.
The girl you're with now though, don't hurt her. If you feel that she loves you and you don't love her and you feel that you never will, do not give her hope and end this relationship.
It's a bad thing that you cheated on her, whether you love her or not. You're not that bad tho, it's worse to cheat on someone you love :)

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DeionS · 06-01-2009, 12:22 AM

^good looks fellas.... Yeah, I just don't get it. Like I was like "I need this girl back" and i was so happy when i was with her pre-sex..... and then after we had sex n i walked her to her car..... all those feelings were jus gone... i didn't even feel like kissing her goodnight.

Lucki · 06-01-2009, 03:20 AM

damn why man why!? That's just not right in my eyes

Kidss · 06-05-2009, 03:57 PM

yo nigga how was the bitch

C. Sense AKA L.J. · 06-05-2009, 05:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SwiRly

havent u ever talkin to a bitch when ur horny or someshit and then regret it once u bust... yeah

basically

jus keep it to yourself and forget it, youll get over it

i felt a lil guilty when I did it too but i got over it

scool · 06-06-2009, 08:32 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kidss

yo nigga how was the bitch

hahahhaa

lol I thought I was the only one who felt like that

thinking ur in love and then not feelin shit after sex anymore

been down that route

Cynic · 06-07-2009, 02:01 AM

You are in your playa phase, in other words you still have urges and lack the control required to be in a serious long term relationship. Be true to the game go tell ya girl you don't want to be in serious relationship and break it off. Simple !

DeionS · 06-08-2009, 09:57 PM

^ i feel you bro.

Yeah we broke up....

I jus fucked some new girl that i never had sex with this weekend....

Always the best :)

Baltimores Finest · 06-09-2009, 06:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DeionS

^ i feel you bro.

Yeah we broke up....

I jus fucked some new girl that i never had sex with this weekend....

Always the best :)

i feel you bro

05-31-2009, 04:42 PM	#1
DeionS YaH DiG???? Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: New York Posts: 1,349 Repped: 32 Repped 1,182 Times in 137 Posts Neg Reps: 3 Neg Repped at 30 Times in 20 Posts	Damn, i just cheated on my girlfriend.... Damn, i just cheated on my girlfriend.... First time I've cheated..... I slept with two different women this weekend and my girlfriend has no idea. I'm disgusted with myself haha..... But I just feel like no one girl can keep my attention on them for mroe than a couple months. Any other guy feel that way..??? It seems like every gf I get or every girl I start having feelings for, those feelings just go away after sleeping with them, and then I just want a different girl, and once I get that different girl, those feelings go away. Is this normal? p.s., this is not a joke thread, i'm being 100 percent serious. I feel like a man-whore, it's a gift & a curse.

05-31-2009, 05:58 PM	#2
Bkjj11 Cuz u copied my trend Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Playboy Mansion Posts: 4,268 Repped: 219 Repped 6,920 Times in 628 Posts Neg Reps: 56 Neg Repped at 97 Times in 62 Posts	yes it is normal homie. its probably because after sex, you have no real intimate feelings about them anymore. It happens to plenty of dudes, including me, not to say im special but im speaking from experience. In your case like many other people cases, u just havent found that right female that will click with you outside of the bedroom. Im talking about a chick that you cant stop talking about, or the thought that you are ready to wife this chick up cuz thats how good you think about her. At the end of the day homie, whether or not you stay with your current chick, its not gonna be healthy cuz u gonna feel like a 'man-whore' until you have that woman that changes you for good and u wont feel like u need to mess around anymore... Obviously u havent found it yet, but its gonna hit u upside your head for sure with one chick and you'll see what i mean. __________________

06-07-2009, 02:01 AM	#10
Cynic Veteran Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 1,420 Repped: 9 Repped 16 Times in 8 Posts Neg Reps: 0 Neg Repped at 4 Times in 2 Posts	You are in your playa phase, in other words you still have urges and lack the control required to be in a serious long term relationship. Be true to the game go tell ya girl you don't want to be in serious relationship and break it off. Simple ! __________________

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05-31-2009, 06:02 PM	#3
SwiRly Veteran Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 1,066 Repped: 11 Repped 80 Times in 54 Posts Neg Reps: 0 Neg Repped at 36 Times in 25 Posts	havent u ever talkin to a bitch when ur horny or someshit and then regret it once u bust... yeah

06-01-2009, 12:22 AM	#5
DeionS YaH DiG???? Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: New York Posts: 1,349 Repped: 32 Repped 1,182 Times in 137 Posts Neg Reps: 3 Neg Repped at 30 Times in 20 Posts	^good looks fellas.... Yeah, I just don't get it. Like I was like "I need this girl back" and i was so happy when i was with her pre-sex..... and then after we had sex n i walked her to her car..... all those feelings were jus gone... i didn't even feel like kissing her goodnight.

06-01-2009, 03:20 AM	#6
Lucki Veteran Join Date: Feb 2005 Location: P-Town, AZ Posts: 2,733 Repped: 2,275 Repped 49 Times in 19 Posts Neg Reps: 104 Neg Repped at 13 Times in 6 Posts	damn why man why!? That's just not right in my eyes

06-05-2009, 03:57 PM	#7
Kidss Join Date: Mar 2009 Location: Bloomington Posts: 380 Repped: 0 Repped 34 Times in 26 Posts Neg Reps: 1 Neg Repped at 21 Times in 16 Posts	yo nigga how was the bitch

06-08-2009, 09:57 PM	#11
DeionS YaH DiG???? Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: New York Posts: 1,349 Repped: 32 Repped 1,182 Times in 137 Posts Neg Reps: 3 Neg Repped at 30 Times in 20 Posts	^ i feel you bro. Yeah we broke up.... I jus fucked some new girl that i never had sex with this weekend.... Always the best :)