Will My Girlfriend Leave Me When She Go To College?

Da Dynasty · 03-23-2009, 09:46 AM

Let Me Ask Yall My HHB Homies Then And Compare Your Responses To The Ones I Got From Yahoo Answers

Real Talk Though Man I Been Thinking About It

Me And Girlfriend Been Together For 3-1/2 Years, It Will Be 4 At The End Of July, I Been With Her All Her High School Years, She About To Graduate Highschool. Im About To Finish My Two Year Program In The Summer And Start Work So I Can For Our Future Together. I Love Her And Trust Her..She Loves And Trust Me..The Colleges Down Her Arent That Far Away So
I Spoiled Her, She Loves The Ring I Got Her For Valentine Day And Wears It All The Time, She Says I Have Nothing To Worry About Wen She Go To College.

Is There Any Chance She Will Leave For Someone Else When She Attends College

Cynic · 03-23-2009, 10:26 AM

She will cheat at some point (know that ) .College girls/guys have the worst relationship potential especially freshmen. Just wait until she says she want's to try new experiences and new people. BAM!! there goes ya 3 1/2 relationship up in smoke.

my advice is start campaigning other females , let the current know she can be replaced, if not be prepared to purchase Kanye 808's Album and press repeat . I'm wondering why both of you want to commit at a young age ? live life

dbone609style · 03-24-2009, 12:49 AM

yoo maynee chances r eventually she gonna end up tryin to get wit other dudes, its def gonna happen especially if ur like the only guy she been with cause she gonna feel like she aint experienced a bigger part of her life yet, n yo wait untill she gets them slutty ass roomates, that r talkin shit in her ear all the time bout gettin wit other people n havin a good time at college... i was with my girl for 2 1/2 yrs n she used to tell me the same shit that i had nothin to worry about n all that, but once she went away to college it only took about a semester for us to break up n that girl was like the love of my life, n she told me i was hers but at the same time she wanted to be independent n live life ya kno, which means she wanted to get some new dick lol because kno girl wants to be with the same guy their whole life n never get to see wut else is out there... n yo we still chill wen she comes home n we mad cool, but it wont ever be how it used to be ya kno... but try n make it work n see wut happens, im jus sayin dont expect it to last cause its maddd hard makin it work... n if it dont work out trust n believe that ur gona be hurtin for months but ull get over it eventually... so my advice would definaltey be to try n start talkin to some other girls n see if u can open up some options cause u need to make her jus as worried about you as ur gona be about her ya diggg.... feel wut im sayin cause its the truth homie

citystarz™ · 03-24-2009, 05:28 AM

do some shit she wouldnt expect. nice things and freaky things. also some exciting shit so she doesnt feel the need 2 go out and be get drunk and crazy around other college guys

scool · 03-24-2009, 05:40 AM

there is really only one correct answer to your question

Yes, she will.

Tom Chambers · 03-24-2009, 09:59 AM

if it happens....then it happens...you can't control it...or her........you can try doing like spontanious(sp?) shit liek some1 else said in here.....and that might keep some of the excitement in it.....but...if she's gonnathrow it all away...theres not much you can do

skitershady · 03-24-2009, 10:12 AM

I am currently on a long distance relationship
its hard believe me. You will want to cheat but in my case I dont cheat. and its stupid for u to be faithful when ur not sure wwhats ur partner doing u know
I mean u guys have been together for almost for years of course yall love each other, but she is young and she will try new thing unfortunately but u guys can always work things out to make it work and be together.

PBMaSteRMiNdiN · 03-24-2009, 10:16 AM

She prolly won't be faithful.. but you might have a down ass bitch.. you never know.. it's something you should watch for though.. liquor + parties + freshman = easy smash.. it comes down to is your girl smarter than other bbitches

scool · 03-24-2009, 11:20 AM

the sooner you get past her and stop crying the better

trust me... ain't no point in being all sad n shit... just dump her now before she cheats u.. cuz you gon get fucked anyway lol

Day N Nite · 03-24-2009, 07:57 PM

On the real, It depends on how deep your relationship is. Yall could be together for 5, 6 years, and she could still leave you. If yall relationship is really deep and its meaningful, you should be able to talk to her about it and find out where her head is at about it all and how she feels about you leaving. Long distance relationships are mad hard to maintain man, and they can get very pricey if you tryna go see her all the time.

To make a long story short, talk to her about it and ask her how she feels about it.

Red Bandana · 03-24-2009, 08:26 PM

Yes but it will hurt you a lot cuz you'll feel like you wasted 4 yrs. I went out with a senior last year who is going to UGA now. I had to find out thru my sister-in-law that she was cheatin on me. I didn't care too much though.

PAUL CAINE · 03-24-2009, 08:49 PM

your in a fucked up situation....just by reading your post i can tell you really like this chic

this is what i do, i have a main chic who i like alot.....but i still have 2 other chics on the side that i fuck with, all 3 are sexy of course.....but im always lookin for new talent ( or lookin to upgrade) becuz you never know what might happen

im always lookin for new chics to get at.....i love pussy ic cant help it, but i mainly do it so i have a back up plan just in case one of my other chics starts wildin out

so if my main chic jumps ship for some reason, or she starts slippin ...i have another chic ready to fill her spot......

EDIT: I say you just wash your hands of the situation and move on nahmeen......

June7 · 03-24-2009, 10:48 PM

thats fucked up my brotha... goodluck man foreal all the best bro

Witty Qwan · 03-25-2009, 10:07 AM

Situations like yours are based on trust....and according to you yall have it...3 n a half years is a long time...but college life could get crazy...i agree with some if the comments up here about her may wanting to try something new...but that usually happens in realtionships because the colleges be far from where the other live and they dont get to see each other or talk to each other as much...but wut u should do is make sure yall keep in contact...i dont think she will leave you for someone else though...u got nothing to worry about

Witty Sparxz

p.s- lmaoooooooo @ going to yahoo answers for advice on realtionships

p.s.s.- I just read all the other post....u may be screwed

Da Dynasty · 03-25-2009, 06:13 PM

Girlfriends You Been With For Years, Are Like An Investment, You Just Dont Want To Lose That
I Necessarily Dont Care If She Cheat, I'll Forgive Her..You Know..Thinking Like If She Leave Me

Witty Qwan · 03-25-2009, 06:18 PM

dont care if she cheat...youll forgive her?

damn...u fell hella deep and caught major feelings my dude...lol

Da Dynasty · 03-25-2009, 06:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by YoungSparks

dont care if she cheat...youll forgive her?

damn...u fell hella deep and caught major feelings my dude...lol

lol do you understand what i saying, i dont want her to cheat but if she does, ill forgiver her, i love her she gonna be my future wife fam

Red Bandana · 03-25-2009, 08:29 PM

If she cheats on you now think about what she'll do in the future.

words from my teacher.... auto teacher no less

Young A · 03-25-2009, 11:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Da Dynasty

lol do you understand what i saying, i dont want her to cheat but if she does, ill forgiver her, i love her she gonna be my future wife fam

I wouldn't forgive my girl if she cheats cause she'll most likely do it again

Southside50MOB · 03-27-2009, 12:20 AM

college changes girls straight up

Witty Qwan · 03-27-2009, 11:55 AM

That party last night was awfully crazy I wish we taped it
I danced my ass off and had this one girl completely naked
Drink my beer and smoke my weed but my good friends is all I need
Pass out at 3, wake up at 10, go out to eat then do it again
Man, I love college

Ass Spelunker · 03-27-2009, 12:29 PM

That's cute man.

Get some side chicks just in case

RickStyles · 03-27-2009, 12:42 PM

the rule of 3

OFFiCiAL JAE ROCK · 03-29-2009, 06:22 PM

trust !.....

its a 5 letter word dawg.....

but its tha answer to ur question

EDIT: also talk to her dawg

let her know how u feelin bout tha whole college thang......n see were here head at

OFFiCiAL JAE ROCK · 03-29-2009, 06:36 PM

but wait a damn min., wasnet u not to long ago

sendin a gurl, on aim...sum pics of ur dick ?......

u remember meeka right ?...tha gurl dat use to be in tha audio section ?

lol, she told me dat dawg !......

03-23-2009, 09:46 AM	#1
Da Dynasty Stop Learned Helplessness Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Mississippi Posts: 11,942 Repped: 6,024 Repped 1,248 Times in 441 Posts Neg Reps: 53 Neg Repped at 36 Times in 31 Posts	Will My Girlfriend Leave Me When She Go To College? Will My Girlfriend Leave Me When She Go To College? Let Me Ask Yall My HHB Homies Then And Compare Your Responses To The Ones I Got From Yahoo Answers Real Talk Though Man I Been Thinking About It Me And Girlfriend Been Together For 3-1/2 Years, It Will Be 4 At The End Of July, I Been With Her All Her High School Years, She About To Graduate Highschool. Im About To Finish My Two Year Program In The Summer And Start Work So I Can For Our Future Together. I Love Her And Trust Her..She Loves And Trust Me..The Colleges Down Her Arent That Far Away So I Spoiled Her, She Loves The Ring I Got Her For Valentine Day And Wears It All The Time, She Says I Have Nothing To Worry About Wen She Go To College. Is There Any Chance She Will Leave For Someone Else When She Attends College __________________

03-23-2009, 10:26 AM	#2
Cynic Veteran Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 1,423 Repped: 9 Repped 16 Times in 8 Posts Neg Reps: 0 Neg Repped at 4 Times in 2 Posts	She will cheat at some point (know that ) .College girls/guys have the worst relationship potential especially freshmen. Just wait until she says she want's to try new experiences and new people. BAM!! there goes ya 3 1/2 relationship up in smoke. my advice is start campaigning other females , let the current know she can be replaced, if not be prepared to purchase Kanye 808's Album and press repeat . I'm wondering why both of you want to commit at a young age ? live life __________________

03-24-2009, 09:59 AM	#6
Tom Chambers AkA Sur-Vis-U-All Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: pittsburgh Posts: 11,378 Repped: 134 Repped 510 Times in 316 Posts Neg Reps: 20 Neg Repped at 71 Times in 56 Posts	if it happens....then it happens...you can't control it...or her........you can try doing like spontanious(sp?) shit liek some1 else said in here.....and that might keep some of the excitement in it.....but...if she's gonnathrow it all away...theres not much you can do __________________ http://www.datpiff.com/Tom_Chambers_Official_Jae_Rock_Tash_Stack_B-d.m104300.html NEW TAPE!

03-24-2009, 10:16 AM	#8
PBMaSteRMiNdiN myspace.com/ObeythePen Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: In ThA NotePaD Posts: 5,126 Repped: 90 Repped 375 Times in 198 Posts Neg Reps: 1 Neg Repped at 52 Times in 38 Posts	She prolly won't be faithful.. but you might have a down ass bitch.. you never know.. it's something you should watch for though.. liquor + parties + freshman = easy smash.. it comes down to is your girl smarter than other bbitches __________________ "I'm having Murderous dreams cus I smoke like a Metric Ton, I Raise my L's in the Air like the Devil's Son." R.I.P. Big L & Vito

03-24-2009, 07:57 PM	#10
Day N Nite jets x taylor gang Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Space Posts: 3,085 Repped: 657 Repped 1,052 Times in 360 Posts Neg Reps: 72 Neg Repped at 46 Times in 39 Posts	On the real, It depends on how deep your relationship is. Yall could be together for 5, 6 years, and she could still leave you. If yall relationship is really deep and its meaningful, you should be able to talk to her about it and find out where her head is at about it all and how she feels about you leaving. Long distance relationships are mad hard to maintain man, and they can get very pricey if you tryna go see her all the time. To make a long story short, talk to her about it and ask her how she feels about it. __________________ BENGALS: 10-6, AFC North Champions. R.I.P Chris Henry

03-24-2009, 12:49 AM	#3
dbone609style EnEff Squad Up Join Date: Nov 2006 Location: ACity/EnEff 609 Posts: 1,454 Repped: 286 Repped 91 Times in 61 Posts Neg Reps: 133 Neg Repped at 39 Times in 32 Posts	yoo maynee chances r eventually she gonna end up tryin to get wit other dudes, its def gonna happen especially if ur like the only guy she been with cause she gonna feel like she aint experienced a bigger part of her life yet, n yo wait untill she gets them slutty ass roomates, that r talkin shit in her ear all the time bout gettin wit other people n havin a good time at college... i was with my girl for 2 1/2 yrs n she used to tell me the same shit that i had nothin to worry about n all that, but once she went away to college it only took about a semester for us to break up n that girl was like the love of my life, n she told me i was hers but at the same time she wanted to be independent n live life ya kno, which means she wanted to get some new dick lol because kno girl wants to be with the same guy their whole life n never get to see wut else is out there... n yo we still chill wen she comes home n we mad cool, but it wont ever be how it used to be ya kno... but try n make it work n see wut happens, im jus sayin dont expect it to last cause its maddd hard makin it work... n if it dont work out trust n believe that ur gona be hurtin for months but ull get over it eventually... so my advice would definaltey be to try n start talkin to some other girls n see if u can open up some options cause u need to make her jus as worried about you as ur gona be about her ya diggg.... feel wut im sayin cause its the truth homie

03-24-2009, 05:28 AM	#4
citystarz™ trapmuzik Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: B-Town Posts: 4,967 Repped: 1,054 Repped 538 Times in 310 Posts Neg Reps: 154 Neg Repped at 102 Times in 81 Posts	do some shit she wouldnt expect. nice things and freaky things. also some exciting shit so she doesnt feel the need 2 go out and be get drunk and crazy around other college guys

03-24-2009, 05:40 AM	#5
scool Banned Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: DA CHAT SEXHUN THRONE MAFUCCA.. DEEBO WUDDUP?? Posts: 20,134 Repped: 1,328 Repped 2,389 Times in 867 Posts Neg Reps: 267 Neg Repped at 488 Times in 326 Posts	there is really only one correct answer to your question Yes, she will.

03-24-2009, 10:12 AM	#7
skitershady Veteran Join Date: Aug 2007 Location: Tampa Florida Posts: 2,901 Repped: 1,660 Repped 647 Times in 231 Posts Neg Reps: 96 Neg Repped at 48 Times in 35 Posts	I am currently on a long distance relationship its hard believe me. You will want to cheat but in my case I dont cheat. and its stupid for u to be faithful when ur not sure wwhats ur partner doing u know I mean u guys have been together for almost for years of course yall love each other, but she is young and she will try new thing unfortunately but u guys can always work things out to make it work and be together.

03-24-2009, 11:20 AM	#9
scool Banned Join Date: Oct 2004 Location: DA CHAT SEXHUN THRONE MAFUCCA.. DEEBO WUDDUP?? Posts: 20,134 Repped: 1,328 Repped 2,389 Times in 867 Posts Neg Reps: 267 Neg Repped at 488 Times in 326 Posts	the sooner you get past her and stop crying the better trust me... ain't no point in being all sad n shit... just dump her now before she cheats u.. cuz you gon get fucked anyway lol

03-24-2009, 08:26 PM	#11
Red Bandana R.I.P. UGA VII Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Atlanta Posts: 1,992 Repped: 910 Repped 876 Times in 358 Posts Neg Reps: 0 Neg Repped at 57 Times in 48 Posts	Yes but it will hurt you a lot cuz you'll feel like you wasted 4 yrs. I went out with a senior last year who is going to UGA now. I had to find out thru my sister-in-law that she was cheatin on me. I didn't care too much though. __________________

03-24-2009, 08:49 PM	#12
PAUL CAINE Sour Diesal & Grand Cru Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: N.Y.C Posts: 4,301 Repped: 1,465 Repped 727 Times in 459 Posts Neg Reps: 105 Neg Repped at 165 Times in 102 Posts	your in a fucked up situation....just by reading your post i can tell you really like this chic this is what i do, i have a main chic who i like alot.....but i still have 2 other chics on the side that i fuck with, all 3 are sexy of course.....but im always lookin for new talent ( or lookin to upgrade) becuz you never know what might happen im always lookin for new chics to get at.....i love pussy ic cant help it, but i mainly do it so i have a back up plan just in case one of my other chics starts wildin out so if my main chic jumps ship for some reason, or she starts slippin ...i have another chic ready to fill her spot...... EDIT: I say you just wash your hands of the situation and move on nahmeen...... __________________ Last edited by PAUL CAINE; 03-24-2009 at 08:59 PM.

03-24-2009, 10:48 PM	#13
June7 aka ...HI HATER Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: T.O Posts: 3,593 Repped: 618 Repped 1,311 Times in 382 Posts Neg Reps: 106 Neg Repped at 77 Times in 66 Posts	thats fucked up my brotha... goodluck man foreal all the best bro __________________ First Place Is Often The Worst Place But Fuck It I Love Here I Call It My Birth Place - Drake

03-25-2009, 10:07 AM	#14
Witty Qwan # Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: My crib Posts: 3,066 Repped: 155 Repped 486 Times in 313 Posts Neg Reps: 21 Neg Repped at 82 Times in 75 Posts	Situations like yours are based on trust....and according to you yall have it...3 n a half years is a long time...but college life could get crazy...i agree with some if the comments up here about her may wanting to try something new...but that usually happens in realtionships because the colleges be far from where the other live and they dont get to see each other or talk to each other as much...but wut u should do is make sure yall keep in contact...i dont think she will leave you for someone else though...u got nothing to worry about Witty Sparxz p.s- lmaoooooooo @ going to yahoo answers for advice on realtionships p.s.s.- I just read all the other post....u may be screwed Last edited by Witty Qwan; 03-25-2009 at 10:56 AM.

03-25-2009, 06:13 PM	#15
Da Dynasty Stop Learned Helplessness Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Mississippi Posts: 11,942 Repped: 6,024 Repped 1,248 Times in 441 Posts Neg Reps: 53 Neg Repped at 36 Times in 31 Posts	Girlfriends You Been With For Years, Are Like An Investment, You Just Dont Want To Lose That I Necessarily Dont Care If She Cheat, I'll Forgive Her..You Know..Thinking Like If She Leave Me __________________

03-25-2009, 06:18 PM	#16
Witty Qwan # Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: My crib Posts: 3,066 Repped: 155 Repped 486 Times in 313 Posts Neg Reps: 21 Neg Repped at 82 Times in 75 Posts	dont care if she cheat...youll forgive her? damn...u fell hella deep and caught major feelings my dude...lol

03-25-2009, 08:29 PM	#18
Red Bandana R.I.P. UGA VII Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: Atlanta Posts: 1,992 Repped: 910 Repped 876 Times in 358 Posts Neg Reps: 0 Neg Repped at 57 Times in 48 Posts	If she cheats on you now think about what she'll do in the future. words from my teacher.... auto teacher no less __________________

03-27-2009, 12:20 AM	#20
Southside50MOB **** DYING Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Da QUIKI MART IN NEW YORK BUYIN A STRAWBERRY PHILLAY Posts: 2,134 Repped: 24 Repped 54 Times in 39 Posts Neg Reps: 0 Neg Repped at 0 Times in 0 Posts	college changes girls straight up __________________ MORE AUTOMATICS IN YA FACE YOULL BE PREPARIN YA BERIAL NO RETRACIN THE WEAPON AFTER YOU SCRATCH OFF THE SERIAL

03-27-2009, 11:55 AM	#21
Witty Qwan # Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: My crib Posts: 3,066 Repped: 155 Repped 486 Times in 313 Posts Neg Reps: 21 Neg Repped at 82 Times in 75 Posts	That party last night was awfully crazy I wish we taped it I danced my ass off and had this one girl completely naked Drink my beer and smoke my weed but my good friends is all I need Pass out at 3, wake up at 10, go out to eat then do it again Man, I love college

03-27-2009, 12:29 PM	#22
Ass Spelunker =] Join Date: May 2006 Location: Cali Posts: 1,450 Repped: 371 Repped 161 Times in 97 Posts Neg Reps: 4 Neg Repped at 79 Times in 47 Posts	That's cute man. Get some side chicks just in case

03-27-2009, 12:42 PM	#23
RickStyles Veteran Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Blackpool Posts: 1,532 Repped: 224 Repped 511 Times in 247 Posts Neg Reps: 61 Neg Repped at 92 Times in 69 Posts	the rule of 3

03-29-2009, 06:22 PM	#24
OFFiCiAL JAE ROCK G.E.D...... Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: North C@rolin@ Posts: 5,814 Repped: 675 Repped 914 Times in 461 Posts Neg Reps: 117 Neg Repped at 136 Times in 98 Posts	trust !..... its a 5 letter word dawg..... but its tha answer to ur question EDIT: also talk to her dawg let her know how u feelin bout tha whole college thang......n see were here head at __________________ {-LONG TIME COMIN'-}..MARCH 2010 Last edited by OFFiCiAL JAE ROCK; 03-29-2009 at 06:26 PM.

03-29-2009, 06:36 PM	#25
OFFiCiAL JAE ROCK G.E.D...... Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: North C@rolin@ Posts: 5,814 Repped: 675 Repped 914 Times in 461 Posts Neg Reps: 117 Neg Repped at 136 Times in 98 Posts	but wait a damn min., wasnet u not to long ago sendin a gurl, on aim...sum pics of ur dick ?...... u remember meeka right ?...tha gurl dat use to be in tha audio section ? lol, she told me dat dawg !...... __________________ {-LONG TIME COMIN'-}..MARCH 2010

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